Okay, I have this boyfrined that Ive had for almost 4 years. I love him to death and sometimes things are great but all too often they are not. We have the problem that the "problem" never seems to get solved. I feel like he loves me and I know he does or we wouldnt have dedicated so much time but Its like he knows and understands and then the same little argument will come up. Most usually it is about his drinking/passing out problem or his swearing. I think he definately has a drinking problem and is an alchoholic. He has drank for a long time now but has slowed down to only doing so a few days of the week, usually. But when he drinks, he DRINKS, like a fish. He can NOT stop at a few and its to where he passes out and cannot be woken up. There are times I have to scream or hit him to wake him up. Tonight I had something I really needed to talk to him about.. The TV was blaring, dogs barking inside, Im pounding on the door and he still doesnt wake up until I actually crawl through the window to see if everythings okay. He wakes up and thinks that Im being totally irrational and a drama queen. He says that It shouldnt be a problem and I need to back off because Im not his mom and he can pass out at his house. Thats not even the point, its that I cannot rely on him when i need him sometimes because of the alchohol. It needs to stop! And then he gets up from the couch and goes to bed, He said you go put the window back because Im not the one who climbs through the window all the time! Its been a few times in 2 years and hes been passed out! ANyways please keep reading because I need help with this... I get up and am leaving and Im crying and he yells and cusses J.C. what the hell are you crying about...and trys to keep me from leaving !! HELP... has this gone way too far or is there something I can do besides suggest AA meetings.. I know he can stop I just dont know what it will take.. Any similar stories???.