Yes it is.... Nice work admin!!!.
It's not your job that's on the line, it's there's. They are bulling you and you need to report it. When you have that conversation with HR or your boss, stipulate that you have fears of retaliation from them. Make sure the boss understands the seriousness of this. What they are doing is bullying, and no one should ever put up with that. You shouldn't have to face that kind of crap making you feel bad and helpless..
I think that most people on this board are right. This is probably over with. I wish I could deal with her face to face right now but unfortunately it will be a few more days before I get to see her in person. The waiting is the hardest part. It really is. It's unbearable. It's like the guy on death row who knows what is coming to him and he just has to wait it out..
They are friend zoned..
Did you remind him there would be free booze?.