This "Friend Zone" thing is fascinating. It blows my mind, that folks could be friends FOR YEARS, and BOTH of them were TOO SHY/SCARED to tell the other that they were hot for each other. Mindblowing. I am in my 40's now, and I realize life is short, and I am not going to beat around the bush with something like that. Back in high school, yes. College, maybe (I had grown braver by then, for sure). But past age 25? Nope. No friendzone stuff, I'm gonna tell someone if I like them (maybe there are exceptions, I'm sure there are, like a co-worker friend where it would put one's job in jeopardy). This is neat stuff, can't wait to watch..
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't get why some people (especially females) expect the same level of communication and spending time together while dating - as people who are married. And, I don't see why people want it at that same level cuz people who are married and get to see each other 24/7 aren't having life-shattering conversations and quite frankly probably just wanna break from each other so they can like have a breather..
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I L O V E her!.
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I like the one on the right very much. :).
Through life experiences, I've learned to be independent and a hardworker. I work 2 jobs but willing to make time to spend with someone else. I have 4 children but only 2 left at home. I can't have..
There are always period like this when other stuff will stress him a lot. Get used to it, its something normal..
So I guess love is just a big co-incidence then right? Because of all the lurking variables and how people are just so different, I guess all you can do is just keep meeting people. I do notice though that with the 2 girls I dated up until now (I'm 22), both of them were the ones that suggested a relationship, I don't know if I should just accept the fact that I'm more a follower than a leader if you know what I mean, (not that I was unhappy). But still, I would like to be the confident guy that can find somebody..
But...I have known plenty of men that are into having LTRs and say they are not into "hook ups". Yet none of them turn down a hook up if it lands in their lap..