It's tough to describe oneself in few word..
I see toe..
luvibts also likes not so ibts.
The only thing that ever bothered me is her not telling me, the 1st time I met him, that they use to date/sleep together. It felt like she was hiding something when she told me later. When she explained what her gfs were telling her about it, it made sense, and your post confirms how some men do feel about it..